Two days later, she told my friend about it. Steven happened to "ask" Kirk's permission to date me and he said "go for it. Trust that your friend is happy you've found someone you dig, not plotting to sabotage your love. Is there any hope for me and Steven I really like him! If he gets even angrier, you have a decision to make -- one that ends with your friendship, or with the possibility of this woman.
Unfortunately, it's not an easy one.
Should You Hook Up With A Friend's Ex? Here's How To Navigate This Tricky Situation
If she can't say with certainty that she is, she isn't. If your friend knows how much your ex meant to you, and wouldn't want you doing that to them, it could've been a careless, thoughtless mistake. She's hurt from her breakup. The Frisky: Welcome to In Bed with Gigi Engle, a weekly column in which sex and relationships writer Gigi Engle answers your most intimate questions. Set aside time for each of them and honor it — don't drag your lover along on girls' night out not even if your lover is a lady; queer chicks are so bad about thisand don't invite your friend to what was supposed to be a romantic dinner at home. Please see my advice above about how it's not ridiculous to respect other people's feelings instead of only thinking about what will make you the happiest.